I am constantly amazed at people who have the ability of continually talking down to others (and/or talk to them like they are dirt and/or have an IQ of 12) without a second thought. I often wondered, "is it because the targeted individual does not talk back? Maybe if the person who was being talked down spoke up, the poor behavior would stop." News flash- this isn't true. Every time I see someone speak up when they are quite obviously being insulted, they are responded to with an excuse of "well you just don't get me/it/this" so that the poorly behaved individual can continue on with their rude ways without having to admit that *MAYBE, just MAYBE* they are in the wrong occasionally.
So truly, I am beginning to realize that there is absolutely no cure (or help) for individuals who cannot even look at their reflection in the mirror; they have to come to the realization themselves, and fix things themselves. There is absolutely nothing that anyone else can do to change/enlighten that person.
Either deal, or remove yourself from the situation... it isn't going to change.
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